I recently have been taking Michelle Money’s makeup course. She is one amazing woman. She has been through so much, however has found herself, what she stands for, and is so confident in who she is. Her class is so much more than makeup. It is more about finding and becoming confident in the person you are on the inside. Her first day of her course covers so many topics. One of the first is minding your own business. This one struck me hard… she says that it is none of your business what others think of you, there is your business, everyone else’s business, and the universe or God’s business and out of all of that the only thing that you can control is YOU. This changed my life… finding who I am has always been hard for me. I have always worried and stressed about making sure that I make everyone happy, that everyone likes me, and that I am serving others, when in reality, I was hurting myself by worrying about all those things constantly.
Finding myself has been a struggle, it hasn’t been easy, but it has been amazing. I have learned so much about myself in the past three months and really learned to put myself and my family before my thoughts of worrying about everyone else’s business. I have become so much more present in my life. I use to have irrational fears constantly of one of us passing away, being in a tragic car accident, etc. until I realized I was messing with God & the Universe’s business and it isn’t any of my business to stress about the things I can’t control. As long as I am happy with myself, the mom I am, the way I treat others, the way I love my family, etc. then everyone else’s opinion don’t matter. This babes, is being free.
Photos by Roxana B Photography